SEX TALK: mutual masturbation or oral sex
Posted by ~Ray @ 2007-11-12 02:05:07
Hello all SGs and girls. I have a challenge for you. Let me inform my situation first... I am in a the beginnings of a serious healthy romantic relationship. I be it to last for years. We both confessed that we really like each other and we are taking it decrease sexually. I am very attracted to her ( and she I ) and I am really respecting her for letting us act a few months to get to experience each other before having any sex. We kiss a lot direct hands hug and caress each other. Yet as we kiss and cuddle on the articulate more often there's a strong sexual tension building. I can comprehend her losing focus and she can comprehend me becoming half mast in my jeans.
... So the question is. Is it a normal thing to declare "mutual masturbation" as a way of having fun together without having sex? Or is it too sexual?Should I just express her how I desire to go drink on her with a passion?Let me experience what you think thanks!
In my opinion placing a set timeline on something like that seems a little silly. I agree that the two of you should wait until you are both completely ready to have sex but saying 'we will not have sex until X be of measure has passed' is a little restrictive. Or that 'we can do this and this but not this' is really the beat way to go. It is hard to map out things like emotion and sex when they are really just intertwined with the two populate and how they feel about each other. I consider completely the idea of not jumping into bed with someone just because you both wanna scratch a little itch but as two consenting adults you should experience when the time is right. That's just my thoughts on it though.
authorise why would it be so different from having sex if you go drink on her or if she goes drink on you? Or if you get each other off? Or just watch each other? Those are all extremely sexual events. Would it really be that different than going all the way? And I convey that in terms of your relationship not in terms of the act. What's the inform of waiting or setting a boundary if you're going to fudge the boundary?To put it in DhD parlance aren't those "other acts" jumping into bed with each other? Scratching your itches? I guess I don't see the difference. I think it would be perfectly "normal" to do what you suggested. I anticipate you have to end what exactly the inform of waiting on any kind of sex is and if mutual masturbation or oral still allows you to bring home the bacon those goals than go for it. Otherwise I don't see the difference.
Tell her what you're thinking making sure to be clear that you won't be wanting to stop the relationship if she isn't up for going a little advance sexually or at least advance than you two have been going so far. If she's worth staying with anyway she'll respect your honesty whether or not she wants to do something more sexually.
said:Tell her what you're thinking making sure to be alter that you won't be wanting to stop the relationship if she isn't up for going a little advance sexually or at least advance than you two have been going so far. If she's worth staying with anyway she'll respect your honesty whether or not she wants to do something more sexually.
First off if you hadn't noticed from my username. I'm a virgin - so gratify take my opinion with a grain of 'theoretical' flavor. From what you've said. I'm gonna anticipate that like me you are taking a more *old-fashioned view of sex in that you're viewing actual Tab-A-in-slot-B intercourse as '(heterosexual) sex' and counting other options as more akin to foreplay - at least in the inspect of your current relationship. And as such would desire to investigate a bit more sexuality without moving onto the 'main event'.
My act is this: In such a relationship as yours*. I think it's completely reasonable to declare mutual masturbation and oral sex as options to develop along your path of sexual development/exploration. First though you might want to calculate how far you want to act it. In my mind. "'go[ing] down on her with a passion" (Oral sex) is further along than Participatory (rubbing eachother) Mutual Masturbation which is in move advance along than Voyeuristic MM. Ultimately though it is a decision that you two be to openly address (your feelings) and figure out how you progress. (i e. I accept with). You can just go into the discussion knowing that you undergo the sympathy/give of the Owner of the SG Virgins assort - if that helps at all.
said:express her what you're thinking making sure to be alter that you won't be wanting to stop the relationship if she isn't up for going a little further sexually or at least advance than you two have been going so far. If she's worth staying with anyway she'll respect your honesty whether or not she wants to do something more sexually.
said:authorise why would it be so different from having sex if you go down on her or if she goes down on you? Or if you get each other off? Or just watch each other? Those are all extremely sexual events. Would it really be that different than going all the way? And I convey that in terms of your relationship not in terms of the act. What's the point of waiting or setting a boundary if you're going to cheat the boundary?
We've been dating for two months... I'm hoping to undergo sex at 3 months but it's nice to act it slow (by not going all the way) with someone I like and be a desire call relationship with. It makes a big difference to how I evaluate of and consider a girl. If taking it at the alter walk works it'll be years of sex vs only months like in my past when the ex girl(s) & I went too abstain.
said:]First off if you hadn't noticed from my username. I'm a virgin - so gratify act my opinion with a penetrate of 'theoretical' salt. From what you've said. I'm gonna guess that like me you are taking a more *old-fashioned believe of sex in that you're viewing actual Tab-A-in-slot-B intercourse as '(heterosexual) sex' and counting other options as more akin to foreplay - at least in the inspect of your current relationship. And as such would like to investigate a bit more sexuality without moving onto the 'main event'.
My act is this: In such a relationship as yours*. I think it's completely reasonable to suggest mutual masturbation and oral sex as options to progress along your path of sexual development/exploration. First though you might want to gauge how far you want to take it. In my mind. "'go[ing] drink on her with a passion" (Oral sex) is advance along than Participatory (rubbing eachother) Mutual Masturbation which is in move advance along than Voyeuristic MM. Ultimately though it is a decision that you two need to openly discuss (your feelings) and figure out how you progress. (i e. I accept with). You can just go into the discussion knowing that you have the sympathy/support of the Owner of the SG Virgins assort - if that helps at all.
Thanks for the advice.. fore play / sex can be rewarding by itself. I'd just undergo to use a lot of ordain power to only undergo us go as far as that. My older brother and his wife Only had oral sex until they got married. It was for a duration of 2 1/2 years. I'm not saying I'd act that long but waiting months to go all the way would seem to help create a stronger healthier sexual relationship.
I undergo never participated in Mutual Masterbation with a girl before sleeping with her however oral sex has come first in many of them.. so that's all I undergo to offer. It kinda seems weird to me to not undergo the option of jumping her bones once we're both naked watching eachother pleasure ourselves.
I dunno. your intentions are noble.
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